[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ruti.cz\/problemy-ve-vztazich\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.ruti.cz\/problemy-ve-vztazich\/","headline":"Probl\u00e9my ve vztaz\u00edch","name":"Probl\u00e9my ve vztaz\u00edch","description":"Vztahy jsou slo\u017eit\u00e9 zejm\u00e9na proto, \u017ee lidsk\u00e9 ego je v\u011bc, kterou jen m\u00e1lokdo dok\u00e1\u017ee ovl\u00e1dat. Podle statistik jsou to zejm\u00e9na \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 trp\u00ed v n\u011bjak\u00e9m vztahu. \u010cast\u011bji je na nich p\u00e1ch\u00e1no dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed, \u010dast\u011bji jsou v\u011bzni ve sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch domovech. V dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b je st\u00e1le v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m naj\u00edt si partnera, kter\u00fd bude na \u017eenu pohl\u00ed\u017eet jako na rovnocennou bytost, kter\u00e1 nen\u00ed jen n\u00e1stroj k rozen\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed a p\u00e9\u010di o dom\u00e1cnost. Mnoho mu\u017e\u016f je vychov\u00e1v\u00e1no ve star\u00fdch vzorc\u00edch, kdy oba rodi\u010de chodili do pr\u00e1ce a k tomu matka m\u011bla doma ve\u0161ker\u00e9 povinnosti na starosti, zat\u00edmco otec jen chodil do pr\u00e1ce. P\u0159ijde jim to tak v po\u0159\u00e1dku<!--hoot-read-more-quicktag-->","datePublished":"2023-10-30","dateModified":"2023-10-30","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.ruti.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.ruti.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/188853cc08cfc4af3f5ef42e51d7aa754653be0300e41daf30a10471d44d4592?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/188853cc08cfc4af3f5ef42e51d7aa754653be0300e41daf30a10471d44d4592?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"ruti.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.ruti.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/couple-6471113_640(1)_2.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.ruti.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/couple-6471113_640(1)_2.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.ruti.cz\/problemy-ve-vztazich\/","about":["L\u00e1ska"],"wordCount":447,"articleBody":"Vztahy jsou slo\u017eit\u00e9 zejm\u00e9na proto, \u017ee lidsk\u00e9 ego je v\u011bc, kterou jen m\u00e1lokdo dok\u00e1\u017ee ovl\u00e1dat. Podle statistik jsou to zejm\u00e9na \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 trp\u00ed v n\u011bjak\u00e9m vztahu. \u010cast\u011bji je na nich p\u00e1ch\u00e1no dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed, \u010dast\u011bji jsou v\u011bzni ve sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch domovech. V dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b je st\u00e1le v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m naj\u00edt si partnera, kter\u00fd bude na \u017eenu pohl\u00ed\u017eet jako na rovnocennou bytost, kter\u00e1 nen\u00ed jen n\u00e1stroj k rozen\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed a p\u00e9\u010di o dom\u00e1cnost.Mnoho mu\u017e\u016f je vychov\u00e1v\u00e1no ve star\u00fdch vzorc\u00edch, kdy oba rodi\u010de chodili do pr\u00e1ce a k tomu matka m\u011bla doma ve\u0161ker\u00e9 povinnosti na starosti, zat\u00edmco otec jen chodil do pr\u00e1ce. P\u0159ijde jim to tak v po\u0159\u00e1dku a bez ohledu na to \u017ee i oni v dom\u00e1cnosti tak\u00e9 \u017eij\u00ed, nech\u00e1vaj\u00ed i v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b v\u0161echno na \u017een\u011b. Proto je pot\u0159eba si na za\u010d\u00e1tku vztahu zjistit, jak se mu\u017e stav\u00ed k p\u00e9\u010di o dom\u00e1cnost. Proto\u017ee jakmile si spolu po\u0159\u00edd\u00edte d\u011bti, bude na n\u011bjak\u00e9 pokusy o \u201cp\u0159ev\u00fdchovu\u201d pozd\u011b.\u00a0L\u00e1ska by m\u011bla znamenat, \u017ee oba se budou vz\u00e1jemn\u011b respektovat a \u017ee v \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b jeden nebude z jak\u00e9hokoliv d\u016fvodu shazovat toho druh\u00e9ho. Pokud to tak nen\u00ed, je asi vhodn\u00e9 se za\u010d\u00edt zaj\u00edmat o to, v jak\u00e9m vztahu vlastn\u011b jste. Dokud ve vztahu nejsou d\u011bti, je to je\u0161t\u011b dobr\u00e9 a je velk\u00e1 \u0161ance na \u00fat\u011bk.\u00a0Pokud pozorujete, \u017ee ve va\u0161em vztahu nen\u00ed n\u011bco v po\u0159\u00e1dku a ten druh\u00fd nem\u00e1 sebemen\u0161\u00ed snahu to zm\u011bnit, nen\u00ed dobr\u00e9 v takov\u00e9m vztahu pokra\u010dovat. Nic se s p\u0159ib\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00edm v\u011bkem samo k lep\u0161\u00edmu nezm\u011bn\u00ed. Sp\u00ed\u0161e naopak. Pokud je v\u0161echna p\u00e9\u010de o dom\u00e1cnost i o d\u011bti na v\u00e1s, a vy pro sebe nem\u00e1te \u0161petku \u010dasu, je ide\u00e1ln\u00ed odej\u00edt.\u00a0Ka\u017ed\u00fd si mus\u00ed pe\u010dliv\u011b zodpov\u011bd\u011bt zda je dobr\u00e9 z\u016fstat s n\u011bk\u00fdm, kdo t\u0159eba nechod\u00ed pravideln\u011b do pr\u00e1ce, kdo se nepod\u00edl\u00ed na p\u00e9\u010di o dom\u00e1cnosti nebo kdo se schyluje k dom\u00e1c\u00edmu n\u00e1sil\u00ed. P\u0159iv\u00e9st d\u011bti do nezdrav\u00e9ho vztahu nen\u00ed rozhodn\u011b nic dobr\u00e9ho ani pro rodi\u010de ani pro d\u011bti. D\u011bti t\u00edm v\u017edycky trp\u00ed nejv\u00edce, tak\u017ee pokud si vztahem nejste jisti, ur\u010dit\u011b si je spolu nepo\u0159izujte.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Probl\u00e9my ve vztaz\u00edch","item":"https:\/\/www.ruti.cz\/problemy-ve-vztazich\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]